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Begin your inner journey now.
I help people
I help people
I help people
Break through
Break out
Slow down
Transform
Evolve
Get creative
Step up
Make peace
Accept
Heal
Adapt
Unblock
Break through
Break out
Slow down
Transform
Evolve
Get creative
Step up
Make peace
Accept
Heal
Adapt
Unblock
I help individuals gain deep self-awareness, overcome emotional patterns, and create lasting transformation. Book a free call now.
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I’m Tom van Berckel. Therapist, transformational coach, and Founder of Awake Lab.
I love therapy, coaching, and transformation. For over 20 years, I’ve dedicated my life to understanding human behavior, emotional healing, and self-mastery. My approach blends clinical psychology with innovative, holistic methods, creating a powerful and engaging experience tailored to each person. I help people break free from limiting patterns and unlock their potential. Whether you’re seeking healing, clarity, or personal growth, I guide you towards lasting change, deep self-awareness, and authentic fulfillment.
Join this group to break free of what stops you. Disrupt your conditioned patterns now.
Join this group to break free of what stops you. Disrupt your conditioned patterns now.
Stop analyzing your problems and start breaking your patterns. The Break The Loop Experience offers you simple, proven techniques from Gestalt, CBT, ACT, and Systemic Coaching. It’s fast, effective, and fun. Join the free experience now and discover what’s possible when you take action.
Discover your Life Story. A transformative journey to understand, heal, and embrace your true path.
Discover your Life Story. A transformative journey to understand, heal, and embrace your true path.
Life Story is a unique, guided process blending psychotherapy and astrology to unlock deeper self-awareness. Through 3 or 6-month journeys, we explore your patterns, challenges, and growth pathways—creating lasting transformation. Understand your life’s purpose, heal wounds, and align with your authentic self.
Therapy & coaching
I help individuals gain deep self-awareness, overcome emotional patterns, and create lasting transformation. Book a free call now.
1
Emotional
Patterns
Our deepest struggles often come from unconscious emotional patterns. Using techniques from Schema Therapy, REBT, and Transactional Analysis we uncover and transform these patterns. By challenging beliefs and creating new pathways, you can experience greater emotional freedom.
2
Relationship
Dynamics
Relationships are shaped by attachment styles, past experiences, and unconscious scripts. Using Attachment Theory, Transactional Analysis, Schema Therapy, and REBT, I help you break negative patterns, improve communication, and build healthier, more fulfilling connections.
3
Human
Potential
Unlocking your potential requires deep self-awareness. Through Gestalt Coaching, Systemic Mapping, and transformational techniques, I help you overcome limitations, enhance creativity, and step into your most powerful, authentic self, achieving personal and professional growth.
4
Personality
Dynamics
Understanding your personality dynamics offers a clear roadmap for growth. Using Evolutionary Astrology and the Enneagram, I help you uncover core strengths, challenges, and motivations, allowing you to navigate life with greater self-awareness and authenticity.
5
Mission and
Purpose
Discovering purpose and meaning brings deep fulfilment. I help you reconnect with your authentic self, uncover your true calling, and align your actions with your core values. Using therapeutic wisdom we create a life filled with intention, passion, and a clear sense of direction.
6
Life
Crisis
Life crises can be overwhelming but also transformative. I guide you through healing and rebuilding, using integrative approaches to help you find resilience, clarity, and renewed purpose. Turn your darkest moments into powerful opportunities for growth, wisdom, and personal evolution.
Therapy & coaching
I help individuals gain deep self-awareness, overcome emotional patterns, and create lasting transformation. Book a free call now.
1
Emotional
Patterns
Our deepest struggles often come from unconscious emotional patterns. Using techniques from Schema Therapy, REBT, and Transactional Analysis we uncover and transform these patterns. By challenging beliefs and creating new pathways, you can experience greater emotional freedom.
2
Relationship
Dynamics
Relationships are shaped by attachment styles, past experiences, and unconscious scripts. Using Attachment Theory, Transactional Analysis, Schema Therapy, and REBT, I help you break negative patterns, improve communication, and build healthier, more fulfilling connections.
3
Human
Potential
Unlocking your potential requires deep self-awareness. Through Gestalt Coaching, Systemic Mapping, and transformational techniques, I help you overcome limitations, enhance creativity, and step into your most powerful, authentic self, achieving personal and professional growth.
4
Personality
Dynamics
Understanding your personality dynamics offers a clear roadmap for growth. Using Evolutionary Astrology and the Enneagram, I help you uncover core strengths, challenges, and motivations, allowing you to navigate life with greater self-awareness and authenticity.
5
Mission and
Purpose
Discovering purpose and meaning brings deep fulfilment. I help you reconnect with your authentic self, uncover your true calling, and align your actions with your core values. Using therapeutic wisdom we create a life filled with intention, passion, and a clear sense of direction.
6
Life
Crisis
Life crises can be overwhelming but also transformative. I guide you through healing and rebuilding, using integrative approaches to help you find resilience, clarity, and renewed purpose. Turn your darkest moments into powerful opportunities for growth, wisdom, and personal evolution.
Therapy & coaching
I help individuals gain deep self-awareness, overcome emotional patterns, and create lasting transformation. Book a free call now.
1
Emotional
Patterns
Our deepest struggles often come from unconscious emotional patterns. Using techniques from Schema Therapy, REBT, and Transactional Analysis we uncover and transform these patterns. By challenging beliefs and creating new pathways, you can experience greater emotional freedom.
2
Relationship
Dynamics
Relationships are shaped by attachment styles, past experiences, and unconscious scripts. Using Attachment Theory, Transactional Analysis, Schema Therapy, and REBT, I help you break negative patterns, improve communication, and build healthier, more fulfilling connections.
3
Human
Potential
Unlocking your potential requires deep self-awareness. Through Gestalt Coaching, Systemic Mapping, and transformational techniques, I help you overcome limitations, enhance creativity, and step into your most powerful, authentic self, achieving personal and professional growth.
4
Personality
Dynamics
Understanding your personality dynamics offers a clear roadmap for growth. Using Evolutionary Astrology and the Enneagram, I help you uncover core strengths, challenges, and motivations, allowing you to navigate life with greater self-awareness and authenticity.
5
Mission and
Purpose
Discovering purpose and meaning brings deep fulfilment. I help you reconnect with your authentic self, uncover your true calling, and align your actions with your core values. Using therapeutic wisdom we create a life filled with intention, passion, and a clear sense of direction.
6
Life
Crisis
Life crises can be overwhelming but also transformative. I guide you through healing and rebuilding, using integrative approaches to help you find resilience, clarity, and renewed purpose. Turn your darkest moments into powerful opportunities for growth, wisdom, and personal evolution.
Services
Therapy & coaching
1 - ON - 1
Therapy
Services
I bring together the best principles from multiple therapeutic approaches, creating engaging, original, and deeply transformational experiences.
Whether you’re facing burnout, relationship struggles, or a life crisis. I tailor each session to your unique needs. By fusing clinical expertise with innovative methods, I help you break through challenges, gain clarity, and create lasting change.
1 - ON - 1
Coaching
Services
I offer deep transformational coaching to help you get unstuck, breakthrough and gain clarity, confidence, and direction.
Whether you’re navigating life transitions, unlocking potential, or overcoming challenges, my approach brings awareness, clarity, and breakthrough insights. Through experiential techniques and systemic mapping, I help you create lasting change.
Services
Therapy & coaching
1 - ON - 1
Therapy
Services
I bring together the best principles from multiple therapeutic approaches, creating engaging, original, and deeply transformational experiences.
Whether you’re facing burnout, relationship struggles, or a life crisis. I tailor each session to your unique needs. By fusing clinical expertise with innovative methods, I help you break through challenges, gain clarity, and create lasting change.
1 - ON - 1
Coaching
Services
I offer deep transformational coaching to help you get unstuck, breakthrough and gain clarity, confidence, and direction.
Whether you’re navigating life transitions, unlocking potential, or overcoming challenges, my approach brings awareness, clarity, and breakthrough insights. Through experiential techniques and systemic mapping, I help you create lasting change.
Services
Therapy & coaching
1 - ON - 1
Therapy
Services
I bring together the best principles from multiple therapeutic approaches, creating engaging, original, and deeply transformational experiences.
Whether you’re facing burnout, relationship struggles, or a life crisis. I tailor each session to your unique needs. By fusing clinical expertise with innovative methods, I help you break through challenges, gain clarity, and create lasting change.
1 - ON - 1
Coaching
Services
I offer deep transformational coaching to help you get unstuck, breakthrough and gain clarity, confidence, and direction.
Whether you’re navigating life transitions, unlocking potential, or overcoming challenges, my approach brings awareness, clarity, and breakthrough insights. Through experiential techniques and systemic mapping, I help you create lasting change.
Begin your journey now.
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living your best life.
Book a free call or book a session
Begin your journey now.
Book a session and get started
living your best life.
Book a free call or book a session
Begin your journey now. Book a session and get started live in your best life.
Book a free call or book a session
Check out some of my testimonials
Not only did Tom making me feel safe and secure within our therapy sessions and has been really supportive when engaging with. Tom has also given me the tools to help manage things going forward – providing me some hope I didn’t have before. Honestly, I cant thank Tom enough and wanted to make sure he gets the recognition he deserves
Anonymous
I just wanted to thank you again for all your time, empathy and compassion over the last few months. You have been a light in what was a dark place for me. I thank you for all your patience and guidance through this process. I will not forget you or the impact you have had on me and how I will chose to live my life going forward.
Anonymous
Thomas saved my life. When I say the work I have done with him has made me a better person, I mean it. I am kinder to others and myself. I can actually see a future for myself, I can’t remember the last time I did. I will forever be grateful for the work that he has done for me.
Anonymous
I have discussed my CBT with my family and friends, and I cannot express enough how beneficial this has been to my life. I have recently highly recommended Tom to a work colleague. Tom was friendly, empathetic, professional, yet warm, structured and manageable way.
Anonymous
I would say I am functioning 100% better since 2023. I am no longer on antidepressant medications; I have had no further relapses that have required time off. I have a happy work-home life balance. I cannot thank or recommend Tom’s services enough.
Anonymous
Working with Tom for the last 4 months has been life changing. When I had my first session I was barely functioning, on sick leave and severely hurting and struggling. Tom was patient and we've done great work on each of the issues I struggled with. Under Tom's guidance I reached my goals of being more balanced, happy and relaxed.
Anonymous
Check out some of my testimonials
Not only did Tom making me feel safe and secure within our therapy sessions and has been really supportive when engaging with. Tom has also given me the tools to help manage things going forward – providing me some hope I didn’t have before. Honestly, I cant thank Tom enough and wanted to make sure he gets the recognition he deserves
Anonymous
I just wanted to thank you again for all your time, empathy and compassion over the last few months. You have been a light in what was a dark place for me. I thank you for all your patience and guidance through this process. I will not forget you or the impact you have had on me and how I will chose to live my life going forward.
Anonymous
Thomas saved my life. When I say the work I have done with him has made me a better person, I mean it. I am kinder to others and myself. I can actually see a future for myself, I can’t remember the last time I did. I will forever be grateful for the work that he has done for me.
Anonymous
I have discussed my CBT with my family and friends, and I cannot express enough how beneficial this has been to my life. I have recently highly recommended Tom to a work colleague. Tom was friendly, empathetic, professional, yet warm, structured and manageable way.
Anonymous
I would say I am functioning 100% better since 2023. I am no longer on antidepressant medications; I have had no further relapses that have required time off. I have a happy work-home life balance. I cannot thank or recommend Tom’s services enough.
Anonymous
Working with Tom for the last 4 months has been life changing. When I had my first session I was barely functioning, on sick leave and severely hurting and struggling. Tom was patient and we've done great work on each of the issues I struggled with. Under Tom's guidance I reached my goals of being more balanced, happy and relaxed.
Anonymous
Check out some of my testimonials
Not only did Tom making me feel safe and secure within our therapy sessions and has been really supportive when engaging with. Tom has also given me the tools to help manage things going forward – providing me some hope I didn’t have before. Honestly, I cant thank Tom enough and wanted to make sure he gets the recognition he deserves
Anonymous
I just wanted to thank you again for all your time, empathy and compassion over the last few months. You have been a light in what was a dark place for me. I thank you for all your patience and guidance through this process. I will not forget you or the impact you have had on me and how I will chose to live my life going forward.
Anonymous
Thomas saved my life. When I say the work I have done with him has made me a better person, I mean it. I am kinder to others and myself. I can actually see a future for myself, I can’t remember the last time I did. I will forever be grateful for the work that he has done for me.
Anonymous
I have discussed my CBT with my family and friends, and I cannot express enough how beneficial this has been to my life. I have recently highly recommended Tom to a work colleague. Tom was friendly, empathetic, professional, yet warm, structured and manageable way.
Anonymous
I would say I am functioning 100% better since 2023. I am no longer on antidepressant medications; I have had no further relapses that have required time off. I have a happy work-home life balance. I cannot thank or recommend Tom’s services enough.
Anonymous
Working with Tom for the last 4 months has been life changing. When I had my first session I was barely functioning, on sick leave and severely hurting and struggling. Tom was patient and we've done great work on each of the issues I struggled with. Under Tom's guidance I reached my goals of being more balanced, happy and relaxed.
Anonymous
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What happens during a typical session?
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What makes your approach different from traditional therapy or coaching?
Can I choose which methods we use in our sessions?
How do I know if this is right for me?
What happens during a typical session?
Do you work with clients worldwide?
How do I get started?
What makes your approach different from traditional therapy or coaching?
Can I choose which methods we use in our sessions?
How do I know if this is right for me?
What happens during a typical session?
Do you work with clients worldwide?
How do I get started?
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